He’s not that interested
Dear loved ones,
I started reading this book today “He’s not that interested, he’s just passing time”, by Bruce Bryans. It is not my intention to do a book report or a synopsis because that would be just too boring to write and also to read. So instead, I want to relate a recent experience I had with Mr. Three.
I haven’t heard from Mr. Three for quite some time and I was okay with not hearing from him because I was bored with his behaviour. Last May he came to visit me and took me out (a coffee date) and asked if I would get back together with him. He said it would be different this time and I would be a priority. So, eight months later I have seen him exactly once and that was another coffee date. Oh, we talked on the phone and face timed and sent text messages back and forth which is very nice, but I am not 15 years old anymore and this stuff is just boring the hell out of me. I especially hate texting and emojis and that type of childishness especially if there is nothing else going on with us.
Yesterday, he sent me a short message which was one word – Hi.
I did not respond. I was busy and didn’t feel like responding immediately. Only an hour went by and he retorted: Okay I get it. All the best to you. I won’t bother even if you message me in the future”.
So, he is threatening me and using intimidation because I didn’t answer him right away. He didn’t know that I was at work or even if I was still alive.
I did eventually send him a message saying I was not going to chase him and pursue him like he is used to from women in his life. And what did he want with me? Oh, he wanted me to come over and give him some TLC. He was all alone and needed comfort like I was his personal massage therapist and spiritual healer as well as sexual goddess (I am saying this, although he has called me this too).
Chapter 26, page 59 of the book He’s not that interested, he’s just passing time.
More often than not, he threatens to leave you whenever you’re in the middle of a relationship conflict. Threatening someone that you’re going to leave the relationship is nothing short of manipulation. If a guy constantly does this to you in the midst of your lovers’ quarrels, it’s clear that he’s more interested in getting his way with you than solving any relationship issues. It’s a major red flag if a man clearly communicates that he can easily walk away from you without so much as a second thought.
The reason I broke up with him before was for the exact same thing. When I couldn’t keep a date with him because he kept changing the time, first it was 7 o’clock, then 8 o’clock, then 9 o’clock. It was getting to be too late for me to travel (I didn’t have a car and had to rely on buses and trains) to his place and then get myself home again, so I cancelled the date. Here is what he said to me in retort: I have been looking forward to seeing you all week and now you cancel on me, well I am just going to go out and have a good time and find someone to make me happy.
I said goodbye and didn’t talk to him again until last May when he came over to see me. I made a mistake it would seem by trying again with him. He must have thought I was desperate and would just hang around waiting on him and be willing to give him what he wanted when he wanted it. This second chance was one too many.
As I am reading this book, I can see that even divine masculine had these same unmistakeable behaviours which showed he was not interested and was just passing time. I always knew this. Maybe, I am lying about always knowing. I wanted not to know.
Our 3D connection sucked, and not in a good way. Ha ha.
It was our 5D interaction that has been pure and true and loving. Our soul-to-soul attachment. I believe in him being a force for good in this world regardless of outward appearances. I used to break down in grief at the thought or idea of never seeing DM again in this life, but I realize that we are together in a very real sense. Once he said telepathically, why do you miss me? I am right here.
I have to admit that Mr. Perfect has not shown any evidence of being uninterested or just passing time. There are no red flags. He is completely sincere. I am at a loss as to how to proceed as this is a new experience for me. My daughter hit the nail on the head when she said that I am not attracted to him (Mr. Perfect) because he is not an asshole and he treats you good. Bingo!
Well loved ones I must close my eyes and get some rest as I have an early morning work schedule. It is much physically harder now at work because of the intensive cleaning after serving every customer. I was so bone tired yesterday after working a 7-hour shift that I didn’t know if I was coming or going. My body hurt so bad. So, I will leave you for now. I love you and I thank you for being with me. Hugs & Kisses, Summerhill Lane xoxo